This weekend I will be competing in my first Ironman 70.3 (half Ironman). The race will consist of a 1.2 mile swim, a 56 mile bike ride and a 13.1 mile run. Lately as I have been talking to people they will ask me what I think it will be like to run a half marathon after swimming and biking. I always tell them that I will give them an answer after I do it.
A half marathon? Wow, that really sounds intimidating. I have chosen not to call it a half marathon when I am talking to others. Somehow just calling it a 13.1 mile run makes it seem less intimidating to me.
Our minds are amazing and sometimes mysterious things. I know that 13.1 miles is technically a half marathon and when a person hears the word marathon they almost instantly start thinking of the Boston or Chicago Marathons. They envision people crawling across the finish lines and cramping up. They envision pain and suffering.
Lets think about this. How can you get yourself excited for something that conjures up such vivid images of pain? The answer is simple, you replace those images in your mind. Is me saying 13.1 mile run rather than half marathon going to make it less difficult? Not necessarily, but it does alleviate the stress in my own mind.
It really doesn’t matter what the endeavor is, the way your mind perceives it makes all the difference. Even with weight-loss you can substitute words to make the potentially long journey less stressful. When I weighed over 350, it was intimidating to think of the huge amount of weight I needed to lose. In fact, for years it was so intimidating that I simply chose to do nothing.
I would psych myself out before I even began. I know I am not alone in doing this. Often we start out with the best intentions only to get frustrated when we realize the enormity of what we have decided to do. This is exactly when we need to think of what we are saying to ourselves.
If I needed to lose 100 pounds and only focused on the number 100 I would undoubtedly get discouraged when each week I only saw a 1-2 pound loss. If after a week I got on the scale and saw that I still needed to lose 98 pounds chances are I would immediately think “I am still so close to having to lose 100 pounds.” Because of shows like The Biggest Loser, many of us feel that we should be losing outrageous numbers each week.
The reality is that if we would shift our focus from the 100 pounds that we need to lose over to the 2 pounds that we did lose, our journey could become much more enjoyable and manageable.
Don’t be afraid to trick yourself and don’t be embarrassed by the tricks that work for you. Break the big challenge down and press on toward your goal. It may be as simple as changing the marathon of weight-loss to the 26.2 miles of weight-loss. It’s still a long way to go, but can conjure up two completely different images.
When it comes to psyching ourselves out, we have to personally give our minds permission to allow it to happen.
